Saturday, August 29, 2009

Soul Mate Definition

A Soul Mate is someone of the opposite sex to whom you feel deeply connected with. Someone you have great compatibility with and with whom you have a great spiritual, soul (mental), and physical attraction to. Someone when you look at and it’s like you’re looking at a mirror image of yourself and to this person you want to make a lifetime commitment with. And the feeling is mutual with both individuals. When you meet your Soul Mate it has the touch of divine grace, favor and amazement upon it and on earth nothing is more precious in life.
© 2009 Dexter L Jones

Are You Ready to Meet Your Soul Mate?

Are You Ready to Meet Your Soul Mate?
By: Dexter L. Jones & Ruby Fleurcius

“Fear is the primary culprit of unequally yoked relationships.”

Yes, fear-fear of not finding Mr. or Mrs. Right. It is so amazing how fear will cause us to settle for inequality to fill the void of loneliness, insecurity and/or depression. Most often, we are afraid to admit that we are NOT trusting God, so we pick up anybody to change them to appear as if they are heaven sent. If you want to find the person of your dreams there are some things you must know that are essential to find your soul mate and life mate. We call a portion of this “knowing how to crack the soul mate code.”

However, in order to find or be found by that person there is a code that you must know in order to discover your soul mate. If you can crack this code it would take you out of the dating scene and place you in the presence of the one that was destined to be your soul mate and life mate. You can know with complete certainty, no pie in the sky theories or hypothesis but a knowing and understanding of what it takes to find the love of your life. You came into this world with an inner knowing and an ability to open the relationship vault. You just don’t know that you know and therefore you remain in ignorance and your soul mate remains out of reach. The infinite knowing that’s inside of us will nudge us when the time is right as well as when the time is wrong.

Happiness belongs to you just as much as it belongs to anyone else and in our reports we will share with you some of the essential keys and code for finding the person of your dreams.

· Does it seem as if you will never crack the soul mate code?

· Does it appear that you were sent here without a code?

· Or, that no one took out the time to teach you the proper code?

We will equip you to crack the code and discover your soul mate through a systematic plan.
What should we do when life is pulling us in one direction and the people, places and things in our life is pulling us in a different direction? My friend, when we are being pulled, tugged and pressed, that's our sign to standstill. And, taking our time to make wise and sound decisions will keep us on track, regardless of the type of grip that life may have on us. Thinking about what we are doing before we do it, is a great way to stay on top of our game. We have to find a way to weigh the pros and the cons before making a permanent decision regarding something or someone that's designed to be temporary. Unwise decisions will keep us running from one thing to the next, or better yet, one person to the next; trying to find a quick fix or that quick niche that will pull us to and fro, not knowing which way to turn. Of course, we may want to fix whatever it is or plead our case, but there are times when patience is the key. As a matter of fact, it is best not to make decisions when we are stressed, pressed or confused.

In order to attract our soul mate, we must clear our mind first, evaluate the situation or circumstance and then make a decision if need be. This will definitely save time and energy from being wasted on undoing or redoing stuff that we should have waited on anyway.

Copyright © 2009 Dexter L. Jones and Ruby Fleurcius /

Ask the Experts: Dexter L. Jones & Ruby Fleurcius
Dexter L Jones, Author of: “Soul Mate or Just Another Date”
Ruby Fleurcius, Author of: “Relationship 911: The Hidden Vessel Within.”

Ten Ways to Know If You've Met Your Soul Mate

Wouldn’t it be nice to know right away if the person that you’re talking with is the individual that is to be your soul mate and life mate? Well, you can know by simply knowing what to look for and by knowing yourself. Here are the 10 ways to know if you have met your soul mate.

1. Know yourself and know what type of characteristics, traits and personality you want in a soul mate and don’t deviate and accept less than what you know you are satisfied with. DOES THAT PERSON MATCH THAT?

2. Do you have a witness and peace in your spirit and heart about this individual in your life? If you do not then slow it down and make sure that you are led of the Spirit.

3. The two of you seem to naturally flow together; there is a great spiritual and soul (mental) connection between the two of you.

4. To look at this person is like looking at an image of you.

5. When you’ve met your soul mate the two of you will display the utmost honesty and support for one another and this person will make you (the female) feel beautiful and satisfied? This person will make you (the male) feel like you’re very worthy and able to accomplish anything.

6. With your soul mate it’s like you’ve known this person for a long time even though the time has been brief.

7. Your soul mate and you are very harmonious and can work well together.

8. The both of you are very supportive of one another and desire to see growth in each other in every area of life.

9. Your soul mate accepts you for you; they’re not in the business of trying to change you. They’re like a best friend.

10. Your soul mate adores the time they have with you and aren’t afraid to make a commitment to you.